Relationship Counselling

A reason, a season, or a lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. They prayer you sent up has been answered and it Is not time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They make teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/ people (anyway); and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Just a few problems I have helped clients Resolve

In our relationships there are times when we can’t see, the wood from the trees. We can lose sight of ourselves, and become unhappy in our life. If a relationship does not enhance your life then it’s very likely you have a problem in your relationship. Its my job as a therapist to shine a light on the problems, to discus this in therapy and find a way you can resolve the problem, enabling you to grow feel more secure, stronger and happier in your self and your life. You may need help and support to move out of a relationship then with my support we can move forward to achieve your goal. It is not always easy but sometimes we need the courage to change.

These are just a few problems I have helped people with

  • Suffer from anxiety due to a relationship.
  • Trusting issues with you partner, or other people.
  • Traumatized in relationships
  • Obsession in relationships.
  • Find it difficult to say no.
  • Do you suffer from Poor boundaries’.
  • Can’t say no and then get angry.
  • Always seem to choosing the wrong person.
  • Continually drawn toward the wrong person.
  • Unhappy in a relationship.
  • Lost and confused in your relationship.
  • Loosing sight of your self in a relationship.
  • Needy, and feel your not good enough.
  • Declining sex life, or no sex life.
  • Angry with your partner.
  • Feel you have been betrayed.
  • Destroying relationships.
  • Support to end a relationship.
  • Being afraid of your partner.
  • Addiction in relationships.
  • Codependency.
  • Violent partner.
  • Partner given you an infection due to being unfaithful.
  • And more many more.